Less Than Zero Tolerance

by Eric Mockensturm

  • Part 1: The Start of It ▼
    • Chapter AA: Background
    • Intermission 1: Trips with the Kids
    • Chapter AB: Divorce Papers
    • Intermission 2: Activities with the Kids, Pre-separation
    • Chapter AC: Preliminary Thoughts
    • Intermission 3: Introduction to the Protection from Abuse Act, Part 1
    • Chapter AD: Protection from What?
    • Intermission 4: Introduction to the Protection from Abuse Act, Part 2
    • Chapter AE: What’s a Sorted Affair?
    • Intermission 5: Introduction to the Protection from Abuse Act, Part 3
  • Part 2: Learning What Abuse Is ▼
    • Chapter AF: The First Violation
    • Intermission 7: Thoughts about Jail, Part 1
    • Chapter AI: The Second Violation
    • Intermission 8: Thoughts about Jail, Part 2
    • Chapter AJ: What Came Next
    • Intermission 14: Thoughts about Our Legal System – Part I
  • Part 3: Reconstruction, Act I ▼
    • Chapter AL: First Relocation Attempt, Part 1
    • Chapter AL: First Relocation Attempt, Part 2
    • Chapter AL: First Relocation Attempt, Part 3
    • Intermission: The Absolute Power of the Pennsylvania Courts
    • Chapter AM: Contempt of Court Petition
    • Intermission XX: Graduate Students
    • Intermission 11: More Trips with the Kids
    • Chapter AN: Bad Times, Part II
    • Chapter AO: Hearing
    • Chapter AP: Text Messages
  • Part 4: The Summer from Hell ▼
    • Chapter 13.0: The Summer from Hell – Introduction and Misc.
    • Chapter 13.1: The Summer from Hell – Child Abuse?
    • Chapter 13.2: The Summer from Hell – The Third Violation
    • Chaper 13.3: The Summer from Hell – Losing my Children
    • Chapter 13.4: The Summer from Hell – An Involuntary Commitment
    • Chapter 13.5: The Summer from Hell – Stalking
    • Chapter 13.6: The Summer from Hell – The Fourth Violation
    • Chapter 13.7: The Summer from Hell – The Fifth Violation
  • Part 5: Losing the Fight ▼
    • Chapter BB: The Sixth Violation
    • Chapter BC: The Appeals
    • Chapter BD: Losing my House
    • Chapter BE: Gaining my Freedom and Losing my Children
    • Chapter BI: Stalking, Continuances
    • Chapter BN: Trying to Rebuild

Chapter AA: Background

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Things Were Going Great

I was born on Halloween in 1969 in Ann Arbor, Michigan. I had a very normal childhood growing up in Milan, Michigan. My father was an automobile mechanic, and my mother was a stay-at-home mom and later a bank teller and administrative assistant. I lived in the same house on a dead-end dirt road just outside of town for my first 18 years. About a quarter-mile south of this house was a massive Ford Motor Company plastics plant that made gas tanks and bumpers. It has now changed hands many times as Ford divested its parts plants to deal with the UAW. About a mile north was a federal prison which I believe to be of medium security. Many of my neighbors, relatives, and friends’ parents worked at one of these places.

Inmate Umpires
One interesting thing that would probably be pretty shocking if it happened today was that inmates from the prison acted as umpires at Milan Little League Baseball games. As a player, I was not aware of it, but there must have been supervisors monitoring them. As the fields were spread out, there must have been quite a few supervisors. The inmate umpires did a GREAT job and really got into the games. I think they were just happy to be outside doing something. Unfortunately, one of them finally lost his cool after being berated by an idiot parent for most of the game and said some things that probably shouldn’t have been said in front of children. That was the end of the inmate umpires. I cannot imagine a prison allowing this today.

I graduated from Milan High School in 1988 after attending Milan Area Schools for my primary education.

I met my (ex-)wife in October 1987 at the beginning of my senior year in high school. We were both working at McDonald’s in Milan and started dating soon after meeting. We got engaged three years later and married on August 8, 1992.

I was accepted into the University of Michigan’s College of Engineering, where I continued my education. I graduated with a bachelor of science in mechanical engineering (BSME) in May 1992. Two summer internships made it clear that I needed to get a graduate degree to find a job that interested me. Receiving a fellowship for three years of graduate studies from the National Science Foundation my senior year made the decision to pursue a doctorate easy.

I started my graduate education immediately after obtaining my BSME. I decided to stay at the University of Michigan to get my master’s degree since I was getting married that summer. Being familiar with the environment, I wrote a thesis and finished my MS degree in three semesters. At this point, it was clear to me that I wanted to be a professor. Thus, as getting all your degrees at one university is somewhat frowned upon in academia, I decided to work towards my doctorate at another university. After being accepted to MIT, CalTech and UC-Berkeley, I decided UC-Berkeley was the best fit and moved to California.

I lived in and around Berkeley, California, for five years as I worked towards my doctorate. The National Science Foundation Fellowship paid for two years of my education and living expenses. The other three years, I worked as a research or teaching assistant.

I have one brother, Lee, who is two years younger than me, lives in the D.C. area, and works at the National Institute of Justice (which, not surprisingly, spends a lot of money determining how to best deal with domestic abuse).

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